The Basics
Like many another thing that is quintessentially English, the stiff upper lip isn’t. The phrase itself is American in origin, first appearing in newspapers in the US in the early years of the 19th century. It at first denoted a simple attitude of determination, and only then became a symbol of forbearance under duress, a bulwark against emotional display, a refusal to lose our heads when all about us are losing theirs.
In many ways, the stiff upper lip has begun to show signs of wobble in latter days, with explosions of road rage and demonstrations of public grief becoming part of our emotional range. During a genuine calamity, though, our capacity for keeping calm and carrying on remains undiminished.